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Originally Posted by -Ever-
Because of these mixed emotional reactions from her I realize that she truely is rather confused and needs to be on her own for a while to prioritize, live, flourish, and maybe wind up back in my arms some day. She has been and is being selfish, but that's ok with me. She's been very honest and willing to listen/meet and I'm just not one to be mad at someone because they're in development.
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Damn, you really do love her. Not that I doubted it, but man, it's so rare to watch someone truly set someone free and set your own ego aside. I am humbled by your total ability to let go, and to truly love her... that you're doing that by investing 0% right now. I mean it... 50% would be selfish for both of you, and you've realized that. You are being real with yourself, and with her, and while you love her you are not going to tolerate her immaturity (that's what it is). That takes TOUGH love, man. Cheers.
I hope something works out for you in the end, whether with her in the future or with someone else who is ready for what you have to give right now.