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I don't see where her grandmother was a bitch. You are angry at her for all she didn't do. I find these reasons very childish. How come you expect things from people? That is very selfish. Did you talk to her about it? Maybe your grandma had a reason for doing so. Maybe going there would let her tell you things she never told you before. There are better reasons for hating your family members, such as bad things that they DID do. I'm sure you have good memories with that grandmother of yours.
I'm pissed because there are so many other cases where grandparents really behaved like bitches towards their children and grand children, and where I would truly hesitate to go if they were on the verge of death, but this is no case to be hesitating. Had she done something really bad to you, you would be entitled to hesitate. Realize how lucky you are and go. Heck, that could be the occasion for you and her to open your hearts. It is never too late.
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