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chriswin8 · 11-30-2005, 07:27 AM

Well all in all the mother (Trisha) is not a bad person, or at the least I never thought so. She was really depressed after I broke it off. I mean enough that i was worried she would do something. Then i didnt hear from her for a week and then i get a call from CPS asking me to take the kids because she had a break down and tried to hirt herself. I still don't know the whole story.

At the moment she is in a mential hospital getting help. She is there as long as the Dr's want to keep her I guess. She is not to see the kids till she gets out, then she is to have supervised visatation 3 times a week for 2 hours a day. And that lasts as long as CPS feels she is not fit to have them. That was all set by the CPS and the judge, she nor i have anything to do with it.

I mean i feel bad becasue i kinda put her there (by breaking it off) if you think about it. I mean if i would have forgave her none of this would have happened. I don't want to be hirt by her anymore, i do kinda still love her, and i feel that the girls still need there mother. Or is that a wrong assumption.

So the kids are for the most part squared away. But what do I do about Trisha

And don't worry I am not the type of person that would speak ill of someone out of spite. That just seems wrong to me somehow.

11-30-2005, 07:27 AM	#28 (permalink)
chriswin8 Tilted Location: Buffalo NY	Well all in all the mother (Trisha) is not a bad person, or at the least I never thought so. She was really depressed after I broke it off. I mean enough that i was worried she would do something. Then i didnt hear from her for a week and then i get a call from CPS asking me to take the kids because she had a break down and tried to hirt herself. I still don't know the whole story. At the moment she is in a mential hospital getting help. She is there as long as the Dr's want to keep her I guess. She is not to see the kids till she gets out, then she is to have supervised visatation 3 times a week for 2 hours a day. And that lasts as long as CPS feels she is not fit to have them. That was all set by the CPS and the judge, she nor i have anything to do with it. I mean i feel bad becasue i kinda put her there (by breaking it off) if you think about it. I mean if i would have forgave her none of this would have happened. I don't want to be hirt by her anymore, i do kinda still love her, and i feel that the girls still need there mother. Or is that a wrong assumption. So the kids are for the most part squared away. But what do I do about Trisha And don't worry I am not the type of person that would speak ill of someone out of spite. That just seems wrong to me somehow. __________________ I reject your reality, and substitute my own.