I think its a good punishment. And it seems it worked. Its a gamble, but I see too many parents do nothing when thier kid misbehaves constantly. I'd never think to do some of the things I see kids do..
My parents never hit me, never yelled at me.. It was the idea that they would be disapointed in me that carried the weight and kept me from misbehaving.
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"Life is possible only with illusions. And so, the question for the science of mental health must become an absolutely new and revolutionary one, yet one that reflects the essence of the human condition: On what level of illusion does one live?"
-- Ernest Becker, The Denial of Death
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