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mfe · 11-16-2005, 05:06 AM

For a long time I was in the uncomfortable situation of being a virgin but pretending I wasn't. Not saying that I besmirched any particular young lady's good name...but people just assumed that I wasn't a virgin, and I didn't feel like going out of my way to correct them. When you look at pop culture of the mid 90's...from the Simpsons to Friends to just about any movie, there's joke after joke about sex, and it was just easier to smile and laugh like I'd been there.

So yes, losing my virginity did change me. But I must say, being in a committed relationship and getting sex on a regular basis changed me even more.

11-16-2005, 05:06 AM	#73 (permalink)
mfe Crazy	For a long time I was in the uncomfortable situation of being a virgin but pretending I wasn't. Not saying that I besmirched any particular young lady's good name...but people just assumed that I wasn't a virgin, and I didn't feel like going out of my way to correct them. When you look at pop culture of the mid 90's...from the Simpsons to Friends to just about any movie, there's joke after joke about sex, and it was just easier to smile and laugh like I'd been there. So yes, losing my virginity did change me. But I must say, being in a committed relationship and getting sex on a regular basis changed me even more.