If you don't see him, you can't hook up. Make your decision, and stick to it. Not easy, I know. But you have to make your choice when you're clear-headed (read: not around him), and then do whatever it takes to stick to it. If that means not talking to him, not seeing him, then *plan* to do that. Visualize yourself doing exactly that in advance. Practice, if you will. I'm a huge believer in positive visualization.
Go out and meet someone else!
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"Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath.
At night, the ice weasels come." -
Matt Groening
My goal? To fulfill my potential.
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