Virgins can be cool and confident. Agreed. But sex will always remain a big question mark to them. It is unfortunately a rite that we have to pass to enter into manhood. This is what I beleive. My opinion is that losing one's virginity is such an important matter in the cultural background of our societies...
Can anyone who lost his virginity claim that it all went with total confidence. We all ask ourselves questions when doing it for the first time, even more than before doing it. "Is that the right hole?" "Why can't I ejaculate?" "How does it feel for her?" "What's that expression on her face, what am I doing wrong?" "I'm coming, was it too fast?"
These questions find their answers in acting, and practising, and loving. There is a new level of confidence that you gain by going through this process. That is my point.
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