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But what? I made it clear since the beginning. I made it clear that considering our respective situations, we have no future together (as a couple, once I go back).

Did I do my seductive thing on purpose? I don't know. Maybe yes, maybe no. From what I remember, it was pretty natural.

Before leaving I said: "Lovers share different feelings than friends. Take time to think about it. Tell me wether you want to spend the reamining time as friends or as lovers. Whatever your choice, I will do my best to remain your friend because you are important to me." And I left. The next day, she told me "I want to date you."

"I'm not thinking about how she feels." I don't agree. Right now she feels happy. In my opinion, the main issue here is: "Is the happiness created by being together for the remaining time worth the pain we will experience through separation?" My answer is yes.