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For me a definite change happened, however I think it only lasted while I was in the realtionship. Now that I've been single a while and without sex, I kinda feel like I did when I was a virgin. Although I can look back and say, "Hey, I've gotten laid" but it's hardly anything more than that. When I look back on it it's almost just like a more vivid fantasy. However, I have to say that there was a huge ammount of confidene I gained after all was said and done. I never thought before that it was ever going to happen and that I'd be a virgin for a loooong time. It was good to have an intimate relationship with someone I loved. And I think that is the key part in why it affected me. I had sex with someone I loved, that was the real accomplishment.
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Here are some phrases I'd like to be able to say, in all honesty, before I die.
"That's it, send out the ninjas!"
"So then I had to kill my way to the second floor."
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