Sounds like you aren't really over the trauma of your own childhood indiscretion, which will make it tough for you not to blurt it all out to her at some point, and doing that will make it public knowledge, unless she is keeps things to herself...and you are WAY short of being in that place. I agree to go way slow with her, if you feel you must explore the possiblility of a relationship. Depending on how that pans out, and whether you have really put the incident behind you (in which case your telling her about it would not benefit her), the decision to disclose or to remain silent can be made.
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