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Call in sick, see if you enjoy it.
Your health doesn't take a 3 month rain check on being sick even if it is your probationary period.
If you turn up work still drunk, well, that's another problem...
Are you going to the parties to keep an eye on her or to have fun?
If it's to play the jealous boyfriend, I can guarantee that she'll ditch you real quick.
Never do that.
Go to,like, 1 in 5 parties. You can deal with that. Have fun with her and keep your job.
She has it good, and you're part of that 'good'.
You're the steady boyfriend who understands and lets her out to play.
That's hard to find. You're still developing trust at this point. You have to define the limits of the trust, but if she's saying she's not wandering and you have no proof otherwise that should be ok.
As for flirting:
Nothing wrong with going to the restaurant and reading the menu to get an appetite and going home to eat.
Just make sure that she is coming home to eat regularly.
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