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Originally Posted by little_tippler
Just one more thing...the fact that you have broken up with your girlfriend and that you are already straight away considering the possibilty of pursuing things with Sarah, means it was there all along. Your girlfriend obviously had a point.
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I agree with this 100%. You say there was nothing for your ex-GF to worry about, but the minute you break it off you immediately start thinking about starting a relationship with your friend, despite supposedly not being ready for another relationship?
And after reading the thread, I don't see why you couldn't have brought your GF with you for your friend's birthday. I would think that would give the perfect opportunity for them to meet each other in person, without it being too forced. And if your friend is really as close as you say, I don't see how she would mind making some small concession for you to have your GF with you.
Personally, I think that you wanted a relationship all along with your friend, but neither of you wants to risk losing the friendship. So instead of trying to be together, you doom relationships with other people. But I could be totally off-base here, only you know what's really in your head.