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Old 11-08-2005, 11:45 AM   #63 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Cerebral
Cimarron, as part of the counseling we had to write apology letters, but they didn't want us to mail them even through a secondary source. They said the letter may only end up causing the victim more pain. And to answer your first question this was an isolated event.
That makes sense. Again, I think you should forgive yourself for this isolated event. Making a "big deal" out of it by torturing yourself in her presence will only cause her to dig up her own dark memories and project her hurts onto you.
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