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Originally Posted by Cerebral
Thank you all again for your opinions. It has helped greatly in trying to weight out my options.
Now for the conclusion. So we got together last night, 10:30 PM we both have second shift jobs, as we had planned since before I started this post. I tried to keep a bit of distance, but it didn't really work since we have been a very touchy feely couple ever since we met. We went for a walk around a lake nearby and then watched a movie. After the movie was over I could tell she wanted to pick up where we left off on saturday. So, I decided I had to tell her then. I had built up a ton of nervous energy and could barely get the words out to start the conversation and as it progressed it didn't get any better. So after I got through telling her what happend she stared at me shocked for a minute or two and told me that it didn't matter. She accepts it as a mistake in my past, but it really means a lot to her that I able to tell her this. Not only did it boost the trust in our relationship, but it also gave her a better insight into my past and why I am the person I am today. After a good deal of talking she still wanted to pick up where we left off. I just got back from walking her to her car and thought I should share.
Honesty is the best policy....or maybe I just got lucky as hell, but either way I appreciate everyones help. Thanks you all.
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EXCELLENT work! Just excellent! Congratulations.