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Thank you all again for your opinions. It has helped greatly in trying to weight out my options.
Now for the conclusion. So we got together last night, 10:30 PM we both have second shift jobs, as we had planned since before I started this post. I tried to keep a bit of distance, but it didn't really work since we have been a very touchy feely couple ever since we met. We went for a walk around a lake nearby and then watched a movie. After the movie was over I could tell she wanted to pick up where we left off on saturday. So, I decided I had to tell her then. I had built up a ton of nervous energy and could barely get the words out to start the conversation and as it progressed it didn't get any better. So after I got through telling her what happend she stared at me shocked for a minute or two and told me that it didn't matter. She accepts it as a mistake in my past, but it really means a lot to her that I able to tell her this. Not only did it boost the trust in our relationship, but it also gave her a better insight into my past and why I am the person I am today. After a good deal of talking she still wanted to pick up where we left off. I just got back from walking her to her car and thought I should share.
Honesty is the best policy....or maybe I just got lucky as hell, but either way I appreciate everyones help. Thanks you all.
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