I was thinking about this a bit today. I was thinking that if you just break it off with her as some have suggested, then the relationship most certainly is not going to go any further. That is not what I believe you want. On the other hand, if you just tell her either before or after the time is right it MAY not go any further. Finally if you tell her when it is the time that it should be told, and I think many agree that it is before the relationship turns sexual the relationship quite possibly will work.
The hard part (and the part that I don’t know that anyone here can help you with) is determining when the right time is going to be.
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