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Originally Posted by doncalypso
Cerebral... in the name of all that is holy, and for the sake of your sanity and your heart, please slowly break off everything with her. Be a good friend to her, but don't get romantically attached to her.
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...ditto. Very much so, indeed.
Let it slow down, let the space settle in, and let this one go. Some people will just never be ok together. This is one of those cases.
This could only end badly, or very badly. I'm normally very supportive of relationships, and only see breaking up as last resorts... but we're talking about the feelings of a good person. This is also good since she's a friend of a co-worker... you don't need her knowing this information for no reason. If it's truly behind you, and you're all healed up and whatnot, there's no reason it needs to be common knowledge at your job. If she's worth risking everything for, then give it a shot... but know your chances of it coming out ok are worse than winning the lottery. Twice. While standing on your head.