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Originally Posted by Psycho Dad
During counseling was there any light shed on why you did this? Were you yourself a victim of some sort of sexual or other abuse? You seem to have a pretty good handle on this (as far as I can tell by reading a message board post) so the counseling seems to have been a benefit.
And I expect in time, someone who has been molested themself will post here with a point of view worth listening to.
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Does it count if one wasn't a child at the time? I was, more than once. I would want to know about the person I'm spending a good part of my life with, but it's not necessary or serves a purpose to include the darker aspects of one's life with their intro. Better to have a modicum of honesty than to find out someone you care about lied or withheld an important part of their life.