During counseling was there any light shed on why you did this? Were you yourself a victim of some sort of sexual or other abuse? You seem to have a pretty good handle on this (as far as I can tell by reading a message board post) so the counseling seems to have been a benefit.
And I expect in time, someone who has been molested themself will post here with a point of view worth listening to.
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