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I don't think that you should tell her. She obviously went through a very traumatic situation and will never fully recover from it. If you want a future with this girl at all, you should keep that part of your past to yourself. The way I see it is that you don't always tell your partner everything that you did in the past before you met. I know that there are things that I haven't told my husband and that he hasn't told me. That is fine because it doesn't affect our relationship. Honestly there is some information that I wouldn't want to know. You can't go back and change your actions from the past. Telling this woman will just push her away.
I guess you need to ask yourself if you've told other girlfriends or if you will tell future girlfriends. If your answer is no, then you don't need to tell this one. I think that the only reason you are considering bringing it up is because she has experienced it. That is the worst reason to tell her. She hates molestation and she will hate you. I'm guessing that you don't do that anymore and will never do it again. Keep it buried and dead.
/end of my two cents
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