I say tell her.....but, wait until she's gotten to know you a bit better. Judging when will be the hard part. She has to have gotten to know you well enough so she can see you as something other than a 'nasty man'.
It still might go very very poorly, but that's what you have to live with based on what happened in the past. If you feel strongly enough to feel guilty about not telling her, though, you really NEED to tell her at some point.
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