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Cimarron29414 · 11-03-2005, 01:09 PM

Gilda,

I don't know how to say this other than to say it: Every indication I see from your story and your responses implies a victim's mentality. You are enslaving yourself to this and it is negatively affecting your life and the lives of your loved ones. It WOULD do you some good to go to defense and strength classes - if only to improve your awareness and confidence. You seem to be a wonderful person who is denying herself a lot of opportunities by not overcoming this internal struggle.

You say you aren't cut out for confrontation - maybe that is because you have no experience or training in that matter. Thus, you are conditioning yourself to continue to be a target for people and continuing the cycle in your life. Break the cycle by going to the defense classes and refer back to my post# 125.

11-03-2005, 01:09 PM	#139 (permalink)
Cimarron29414 Still Free Location: comfortably perched at the top of the bell curve!	Gilda, I don't know how to say this other than to say it: Every indication I see from your story and your responses implies a victim's mentality. You are enslaving yourself to this and it is negatively affecting your life and the lives of your loved ones. It WOULD do you some good to go to defense and strength classes - if only to improve your awareness and confidence. You seem to be a wonderful person who is denying herself a lot of opportunities by not overcoming this internal struggle. You say you aren't cut out for confrontation - maybe that is because you have no experience or training in that matter. Thus, you are conditioning yourself to continue to be a target for people and continuing the cycle in your life. Break the cycle by going to the defense classes and refer back to my post# 125. __________________ Gives a man a halo, does mead. "Here lies The_Jazz: Killed by an ambitious, sparkly, pink butterfly." Last edited by Cimarron29414; 11-03-2005 at 01:14 PM..