I will disagree with just about everyone here. The thing that makes us different from animals is that we can control our sexual desires. If I have to go out and ask a friend to keep me from jumping in the sack with someone, I seem to think that my ability to control myself has gone away. Also, since she had her tongue down some guys throat for 10 minutes seems to make me feel the same way.
I've had a girlfriend who cheated on me (all the way, not just kissing) but before that happened there were a few episodes of making out with other guys, and I swallowed my pride and stuck it out. Bad call & a big waste of time. Not trying to be funny, my advice is kick her ass to the curb & check out Germany. Way too much to see in life to stick with someone you cannot trust, and even if she calls you after the fact it's still being dishonest.
If someone gets drunk to the point that they can't control their urges, they have some major problems. I love to drink & when I do I get horny. I dated my wife for three years before we got married and both of us were the same way. However, when we were apart neither of us had any problem in controlling our sexual urges.
Move on my friend, and enjoy everything your life has to offer. See the sights, cut the cord & meet some German women. Most people enjoy sex, your current SO isn't the only one out there.
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