hossified

this is a tough one...and its gonna come down to YOU! Yeah she was drunk...and yeah kissing isn't as bad as f-ucking.....but you being soooo far away, are you going to be able to trust her now...whether she is sober or drunk?? I guarantee you it will be super hard...and you probably will be nervous on nights where she says she is going out. I would say give it a week and have a serious talk with her about why she did it, and hwere she sees you guys going. And don't let her get into the routine of "i'll never do it again, i feel so terrible......blah blah".....because those kinds of answers are almost reflex in a situation like this.

I know for me...having been thru something similar....I will never give 'her' the benefit of the doubt again (as I once did)...because sooner or later, she will repeat the actions and you will get to go through it all over again (in my experience). Once a cheater...always a cheater (regardless of drunkeness etc...)

ALso....you are going to school in a different country...and have a girlfriend back home??? You should be living it up totally, as this is probably the only time in your life you will have this chance! If you and your current SO feel a little confused right now...put things ont he backburner, go out live it up, and when you return see where things go....

good luck man, let us know how it turns out