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Originally Posted by SecretMethod70
if you don't already know what the answer will genuinely be, I don't think you're at a point in your relationship where you should be considering marriage.
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Yes, SM, I agree. I think that more often, though, women convince themselves that they are more ready than they actually are, out of a need for security and getting-it-over-with. So they either jump the gun and ask the guy before he is ready, or they say yes when they are not 100% sure, but don't want to hurt the guy's feelings. I think for either person to ask, without knowing with 99.9% certainty that the other person is ready, is selfish (and yes, I have felt that selfish, in the recent past).