It has been said - but bears repeating - pick a day that has no significance whatsoever - and keep it away from things like Christmas! And then just do it. If you guys are amicable you can use a mediator vs an adversarial situation with lawyers (cheaper, and why not, eh?) - and file a year after you declare you separated. If you are clear about the course you take then don't go for ex sex. It merely delays the internal adjustment to your new reality as a separated man. Be sure you can share with your friends and family about your situation because the less b.s. in your life right now the better (keeping this thing from friends/family is b.s.)
good luck BigBen
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