Ben... as Mal suggests, you will know when it's time to move on. Don't straggle. If you know that you've given it your best shot (and I have a good feeling that you don't really do much of anything half way) then you know there is nothing else you can do to change things for the better.
The fact is, once you know this, you will be one step closer to getting on with your life. Sure it will be tough. But it really is just a matter of putting one foot in front of the other (sorry for the Rudolph the Red Nose Reindeer reference but it is apt).
As for the other thread, you are not in the same situation at all... pay it no heed.
Stay strong and know that there are many here who have your proverbial back.
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"My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars."
- Old Man Luedecke
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