It didn't change my outward personality much, but it made me feel better inside for a while. Call it confidence if you will.
I'm so glad it's over now because of the stigmatism that entails being a virgin. That's not why I did it, but it's an added benefit to not have people look down on you as being shy or weak just because you haven't had sex yet. It used to piss me off when my friends were having a discussion about sex then they'd look at me and make some sly comment about how "one day I'll learn."
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