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Originally Posted by ratbastid
This is pretty off-topic, but what the hell.
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I included that little quotey-quote to indicate what I was responding to. In my experience, it takes some 50/50 before you get to the (hopefully) mutual 100-0. Or else you have to give everyone 100-0, which pretty much = enlightened individual, in my opinion. It's one thing to say "I'm in 100-0," it's another thing to love someone 100%, regardless of what they do. And you're absolutely right, that is the definition of true love. My opinion is that something approaching a "conventional" relationship isn't usually long term stable unless it 100:100, or 50:50, or 1:1 or however you want to state it.