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after reading your description of yourself, i pictured you exactly as you said, physically ugly. but your description seems pretty far removed from your actual appearance in that picture of you.
you're a big guy, no doubt, but not ugly. to make a totally heterosexual observation, i'd say you're a pretty good lookin guy. you have a good smile and a decent looking face. you don't fit the society-made image of male physical attractiveness, but who the hell cares?
"those who care don't matter, but those who matter don't care."
in your situation, it looks like your girlfriend doesn't find your obesity repulsive like you seem to. she matters to you, and she doesn't care.
i'm a skinny mofo, and i don't have a girlfriend (check my thread.) you do, and she accepts you. frankly, i'm jealous.
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