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I agree that masturbation and sex are kinda different - one is entirely selfish and the other is to be shared. Also, I think a lot of couples as they near the one year mark tone down their sex with each other a bit - it's no longer as novel as it once was, I think that is a common thing. I would not tie that into your own attractiveness. You're still attractive.
I dunno what the solution is, though, other than a generic "try and spice up your sex life" line - share fantasies, act a few out, etc. Read and watch porn. It certainly can take effort when things are busy and we get self involved. Thankfully, after 10 years, Mrs. Highthief and I still manage regular carnal lust with one another, despite the introduction of Highthief Version 2.0 last year.
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