how do you tell the difference?
short story: a couple months back, the girl i was with for about a year dumped me. i loved her very much and she knew that. today, i still feel the love for her. we work in the same building so i see her everyday and still have the random, quick chat. i was talking to a friend of hers a couple nights ago and was telling her that i still love her and i can't get over her. she asked if i loved her or was just obsessing over her? i told her it was love, but that got me thinking: how would i know? i believe that an obsession would be to constantly call or drive by her house or stalk her. i don't do those things. there's just a feeling that i have that i can't get rid of. i didn't post this to get help on how to get over people, because there are a ton of those threads, i'm just curious as to how to tell the difference between love and obsession? thanks
