What you want in a person that you'd like to have a relationship changes over time. Pretty much every time you start a relationship you think that person is the perfect match for you and you guys are going to be together forever and so on. However, it takes dating these different people to really discover what traits you're looking for.
Also, you may just be looking back at the memories you have with this girl in a skewed sort of way. You could have forgotten her bad qualities, much as say you could forget the pain of another experience. For example, taking a shot of 151. It burns going down the first time and you think "wow, I never want to do that again", but then the next weekend you convince yourself that it wasn't that bad and do it again. This is probably a really crappy example, but it's the best I can come up with on the spur of the moment.
In conclusion, don't go around looking at girls in comparison with the one you think is so great because if you do, you'll probably miss out on a lot of awesome ones.
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