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Dude, you sound a touch self destructive right now. The first thing you should do is get some sleep. Clear heads conceive better thoughts. Then, take a look at the situation as a whole. It sounds like you haven't blown anything yet. It's posible she brought this other guy into it to show you that she won't wait forever, like a warning of sorts. It's also possible she just wants to be your friend. Unfortunately, the best way for you to answer this is probably TO hang out with her, and possibly meet the guy....just be cool about it. But most of all, if this girl means as much to you as you say she does, you need to talk to her and be honest with her. no bullshit, no defensive attitude, just talk to her about your relationship and what it is or isn't. The worst that can happen is you'll know the truth, whatever that may be.....
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