I have to agree with Daoust here.
Yes there are tons of potential problems all over the place here. There is the marriage, self-respect, guilt and other things. However, I have always said to thine own self be true. I also believe that you should have the freedom to do what you want as long as you don't hurt other people.
We can only approach life in the way that our own nature lets us. There are so many different possibilities of ways to live that far be it for me to say to someone else that there way is wrong. It may just not work for me, but I have limited life experience as I still will the day I die.
Do what you will, but also realize that if she finds out, in most situations, the marriage is over.
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