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Old 09-29-2005, 06:12 AM   #26 (permalink)
Meditrina
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Location: LI,NY
I felt compelled to reply to this thread, being someone on the other side of it. Honesty is very important in any relationship and communication is key. I wish my husband of 11 1/2 years would communicate and be honest with me. I have no proof that he has had sex with anyone else, but he chats, flirts and probably cybers with other women. I know this for a fact (computer history does not lie). I have been trying not to blame myself for this, but it is difficult to do. If I knew why he was doing this, maybe it would be easier to deal with.

In my opinion, you should be honest with her now, so that 11 years and 2 children later, she is not wondering and doubting, and not trusting.
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