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Originally Posted by sweetpea
~~~ Get Divorced ~~~
Some people aren't meant to be married, there's nothing wrong with that, just let your wife go then and be a bacholar, you'll probably be happier that way.
Sweetpea
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I agree. It sounds like you're not supposed to be married yet. You should get a divorce before you are married too long. It will hurt her to know that you won't be together anymore, but it would hurt her even more to know that you stayed married to her and cheated the whole time. I bet if you were honest with her, she wouldnt want to be married to you anyway.
If you got a divorce and then realized later on in life that you are truly ready to settle down, maybe you guys could work it out.
Its not fair for her to think that you BOTH are being honest with eachother. You * are * not!
I read a book on this once. The advice that the marriage counselor gave was: From this point on, dont cheat anymore. Dont get a divorce either. Try to be faithful and love your wife. Be honest with her. Think about her reaction if you were to tell her the truth. If that doesnt keep you from cheating, then you do need to be honest with her. So, basically, if you can't stay faithful, let her know.
All of us are tempted from time to time. I agree with the person that said cut back on porn. You will see other females in public, thats a given. But, dont go out of your way to look and fantasize about other chicks.
It will make it worse.