NoSoup

My honest opinion is that these are contradicting statements. It is as simple as this - If you love your wife, keep it in your pants.

If you aren't happy with your current relationship, that's fine - but why hurt the woman you "love?" Talk to her and tell her the truth. Own up to it like a man and divorce her if you are going to continue cheating on her.

This is all, however, based on the fact that she would react like many of the women that I know and not be happy with you cheating on her, nor be alright with having an "open marriage" Does she feel the same way? If so, maybe you could work something out with her - but lying to the woman you love - especiacially this early into the marriage - doesn't bode well for a bright and cheery future...

__________________
I have an aura of reliability and good judgement.

Just in case you were wondering...