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Hi
I've never cheated on a girlfriend yet and will marry soon. I intend to be loyal to my wife for the rest of our lives. Yet there are billions of other ladies out there aren't there? How can I do this?
Cut down on porn and lusting over other women. I'm always going to know this lady I love has given me her heart forever to love and protect. I'm never going to break it. I'm better than that. She is trusting me for life and I won't repay that trust with infidelity. I've got self control. Sure if I need to I can imagine other women. I've got a history and can think of previous g/friends. I can imagine whoever I want when we are making love but that's not my plan.
Why would I want to have sex with someone else when I could catch a disease, give it to my wife, break her heart, break apart our marriage, leave our children in another broken home? I take my marriage vows very seriously. I'm a one woman man and proud to be. All the things we do for one another when married and in love, no one else can replace this with some fun in bed. If anyone offers I'll politely explain I'm married. End of discussion.
If you see the most beautiful girl who is 15 and gives you the come on I'll assume you won't go after her. So you can stop yourself, stop seeing other women as available because you are not.
I'm not a prude and if anyone wants an open marriage fair play to them.
My future wife does not and nor do I. Good luck!
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