Seriously...seek councelling. I was actually in a like situation many years ago, and unless you wish to do as we did (divorce)....you need to get her involved in the fix of your marriage. If you truly love her as you say you do, then confront her with these issues and start to repair them. Otherwise you will become more and more bitter, and there will come a point of no return.
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Holding onto anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
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