Well, seeing as I live here...
ASHEVILLE NC!!!
It's got four distinct seasons, the summers aren't *too* hot (usually the hottest we get, on about four days out of the year, is 95, and even then it's bearable), there's craptons of outdoors stuff to do (serious craptons), the downtown is a happenin place (lots to do for whatever you're into), it's just a fabulous, fabulous place.
Also, our airport is kinda small. This means you won't have to fly on really long trips anywhere, and you don't have to deal with being in a huge airport. Also, it's expanding, so you have some measure of job security (don't know how secure the job of a pilot is). I know that in the city limits, the housing prices are kinda high (tho apartment rent can be found for pretty reasonable, especially if you're a pilot and she's a lawyer) BUT the airport is in Arden, which is about 15 min south of Asheville- you could live out there (quiet place, lots of houses at cheaper than in-city) or you could even look at living in Hendersonville (20 min south of Asheville, 5 min south of airport, housing about 2/3 to 1/2 what it is in Asheville).
Feel free to PM me if you wanna know more... I'm always up for telling people about this *awesome* place that I live!!!
