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I think you should talk to him, explain the situation, that you were worried about your sexual health and that is why you asked if he'd slept with the girl. Tell him you found out, and how. If he has to be honest to you, you have to reciprocate. Also explain to him that you want to have a foundation of trust in your relationship, and it would mean a lot if he didn't lie about this. Make it perfectly clear that you're not mad about the sex itself, but that he lied to you. I do believe honesty is the best policy in this case, and if he's not willing to tell you the truth then you should perhaps reconsider.
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