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I think it's funny how being a smoker is suddenly a defining quality of a person. I know that I always told myself I didn't want to date a smoker, for my health and his. But here I am today, and my boyfriend is a smoker. I don't think it's a choice, either you like the person or you don't. Once you do, how can you say no because of a cigarette? Smoking does not define who a person is. And I hate smoking lol
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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