I don't think we're a bunch of meanies (but that's what I voted, because it made me giggle). But I think it's pretty easy for all of us to criticize what we don't understand, since most of us have not lived in the life of any one who needed this help. As for those who take advantage, they piss me off too! But I know what's okay in my world may not be for theirs. Again, in the scheme of things... who gives a rat's ass? I have more important things to worry about! Like cheese, dammit!