Sounds odd at times, but try extending the foreplay times. I had a friend who asked me the same about her boyfriend at the time and we did some research. That's what Violet Blue suggested in the book I read. By extending the time spent on foreplay and delaying actual intercourse, the male often is able to increase the excitement and decrease the amount of time/direct stimulation needed to cum. She suggested massage, sensual touching, etc. without as much direct stimulation to the penis so that when direct stimulation does occur in earnest, the sensitivity is heightened. Plus the emotional bond is heightened and allows the partners to decrease their inhibitions which can soemtimes cause difficulty reaching orgasm. Or something along those lines. I looked for it on line and couldn't find the direct quote. I'm pretty sure it was the Violet Blue that I read awhile back. Good book though, hmm... sorry, little distracted
Good luck.
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