Personally, I don't think you should think of a person by their sexuality. Who gives a shit if the guy is gay or not? He's your buddy, right? When you meet someone, do they walk up to you and shake your hand while saying: "Hi, I'm gay" ? No, they don't, just like someone wouldn't say: "Hi, I'm straight."
And what is "gay talk"? Like...lisping and nancying about? Cos, I have a roommate who is homosexual- and he watches football, is a big guy, and doesn't have high fashion.
It sounds like you have not experienced the real world, or are from a very conservative mindset.
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