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Just consider smoking to be part of the package with her. Which it is. If you like her but the smoke turns you off, then it's not going to work. If she's willing to tone it down for you, that's something else. But you shouldn't expect it.
I'd say, hang out a bit more, short of dating -- you know, some coffee together, something like that -- and see how it plays out. If it really feels like smoking is going to be the deal breaker, back off and no harm done. But DO NOT go ahead because you harbor a secret hope that you can somehow down the line talk her out of it. That's unrealistic, and frankly unfair to her.
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