It is what it is.
Unfortunetly there are those men out there who feel the need to hit their girlfriends or wives (in some cases they hit anyone thats close to them) to make themselves feel superior. This type of weakness, thinking and behavior is completely wrong and should not be tolerated.
With that being said....
I'm a big guy who has been blessed (or cursed depending on how you look at it) with a pretty intimidating demeanor and have always been naturally good at whippin anyones ass who has a moment of stupidity and tries to fight me. These facts have stopped alot of altercations with other males in my life from going to the "Oh he got knocked the fuck out!" level.
But in my experience with females who like to get physical and throw blows at a man (outside of not being afraid to defend themselves this type of thinking usually stems from deeper issues)...they are usually gambling on the fact that the man thinks it's not right to hit women and won't hit back. In some cases they actually like to use that possible fact to tease or try and goat the man into actually hitting them. So they verbally or physically try and push the guy to the point where he snaps and hits her. Now most women out there that I have met are not of this type of character...but there are those women out there who like to play this game.
Whenever I have met or been involved with a women like this (and I am happy to say this has been extremely rare) the situation has been handled simply by dodgiing and blocking some weak punches or slaps (and usually laughing my ass off) and at worst I might of had to get ahold of her and restrain her until she calmed down.
There has only been one case in my life where I had to hit a women. It was a typical Sat. night, out on the town with some of my buddies and their lady friends. Towards the end of the night after most everybody was pretty intoxicated (and in most cases no matter if it is females or males involved in the fight...alcohol has played a big factor) the bar was closing down and everyone was filing outside. On the way out one of the females in our group got into an arguement with another female outside which eventually turned into a fight (and I don't care how many times I see women fight it still cracks me up...once they get ahold of each others hair its pretty pathetic). So they got at it for awhile until my buddie decides to get his girlfriend out of there...ok you know the story the other girls boyfriend gets involved and all of sudden it turns into a full out street brawl. Well to some this is scary but at that time in my life fighting was a natural high for me so hell I jumped right in. Well as the fight is going on the the other girl who started the fight is going around knocking the shit out of my buddies with this parking pole while they are fighting her friends. Well that shit wasn't going to fly so I went to try and stop her and get it away from her......well after she whacked me a couple of times in the arm and ended up bustin my nose I'd had enough of that crap and after she swang and missed finally I smacked right in the mouth. Of course the cops finally showed up and I can still remember her screaming "Arrest him he hit me...he's a pussy and likes to hit girls!!!"
Anyways that was the only time in my life...and to be honest I didn't and don't regret it...she deserved it. To think that I was the designated driver that night.....rofl!
Male or female don't start something that you are not prepared to finish no matter what the consequences......
"Don't let your mouth right checks your ass can't cash!"
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