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I second what tec and that hot chick lurkette say:
It's about COMMUNICATION first, foremost, and forever.
The single best way to fuck up a relationship--poly, mono, marital, extramarital, committed, casual, and all various flavors of what-have-you--is to not communicate. Second best way is to assidously avoid self-knowledge. As someone who has done both, I recommend you learn from my mistakes.
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