Astrahl, what exactly do you desire from your husband that he does not give to you? Do you need lust and passion and experimentation?
Why do you regret not having sex with anyone else? What would you have now, if you'd had sex, that you do not have? Knowledge that your husband may indeed suck or be passionless?
By the way, have you recently had children or does he work a very stressful job?
I'd recommend expending all options(counceling, sex therapy) BEFORE thinking about going outside the marriage, or even mentioning it. If you tell your husband you regret not having sex with anyone else, and may want to, do you think he'll want to have sex with you more?
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